tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4014765438775744922.post7950766938148046878..comments2023-09-10T10:25:21.834-05:00Comments on The Life of Miss Conception: Honestly.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4014765438775744922.post-78667853375934038452012-03-15T15:24:49.967-05:002012-03-15T15:24:49.967-05:00vent away! it's your blog, so you can say what...vent away! it's your blog, so you can say whatever you want. :) i'm sorry it's been so rough on you, especially feeling like you're doing it alone. i'm sure if you talk to him about how you feel, maybe from a positive starting point (like starting out with how you appreciate how hard he works at his job, etc.), he'll understand where you're coming from and want to be more of a team. i've found that when i butter B up, it makes my complaint about him go over more smoothly. maybe y'all could set saturdays aside as chore day and y'all could split the work up. i hope you're able to reach a decision about the job situation. i felt guilty leaving my job, too, like i was betraying them or something, but i knew it was what was right for me. if you decide to keep working, more power to ya! i'm sure you'll be a fantastic mom either way. big hugs! i promise it will get easier. :)Carliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06869662113993914883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4014765438775744922.post-90803352701755834542012-03-15T10:12:28.712-05:002012-03-15T10:12:28.712-05:00I am so glad you wrote this as I needed this today...I am so glad you wrote this as I needed this today. My life feels so much like you wrote except our son is now 2 years old and I have had to struggle with all of this every week since he was born. I so wish i could stay home with our son as I hate day care. Our son got so sick there seemed like evry week he got something and now he is in the early toddler class and its been so hard on me. The guilt of working and leaving him long hours and recently he has been bitten 4 times on his forearms and his face scratched up by another child. Nothing is easy and my house is always a disaster and I am so exhausted. Sorry you are struggling but its good to read it may be somewhat normal for us working Mothers and wives. I wish there was an easy answer for it. You are lucky if you have the option to stay home, if you can you should do it. The stress of a full time job is so difficult with all the rest we have to do! Good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com